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Thursday, April 29, 2010

It's Been Long

Hi all, it's been so long since I blogged. Well, guess not many people will still be reading my blog since all of you will be disappointed everytime you come here and realise that I have still not updated yet, and maybe after a while you will stop coming to my blog.

But never mind, for those who will still come here, that means you are truly my friend, truly concerned for me, who will never give me up, no matter how long time has passed.

And that's why you deserve to be my friend, just like I deserve to be your friend, cause friends are supposed to be like that, never giving up on you, no matter how long time has passed, always there for you when you need them for anything, be it for advise, or just a shoulder to cry on.

People have different goals in life, and sometimes, to pursue these goals, we spend alot of time doing all sorts of things, like working, or any other things that may not seem important in daily life, but each little step we take brings us closer to our goals.

And during our pursuit for these goals, we often may not find the time to relax, or do things that we really enjoy, like catching up with friends, but it does not mean that we have forgotten our friends, it's just that the time is not right yet to do what we love to, even though we would really want to.

Our loved ones will still be in our minds, and when the time has come to catch up with them, it will be so much more meaningful, cause so much time has passed, so many things have happened, and there will be so many things to talk about. That time spent will then be called "quality time".

For those who cannot understand that other people have things to do, and they are always calculative of what others can give them but cannot stand giving more to others, then they don't really understand the meaning of being a friend.

By "information feeder", what's not good in being an information feeder? Isn't friends supposed to provide information when your friends need them? So that they can learn more after you, so that they know what you know, so that they can share what you have, cause they see that you are happy, and they would like to be happy like you, is it so wrong to let them share your happiness, or at least let them find half of your happiness, shouldn't you be glad that you can help them in some way or another so that they are happy too?

I often sigh at the thought that people can't seem to understand other people's difficulties, or is just being petty, or feel jealous and can't seem to genuinely feel happy for others.

When I see my closed ones happy, I feel happy for them too. Example, if I can't afford to drive a BMW, but my friend is driving a BMW, I feel so envious of my friend, take note, envious does not equal jealous. Then, I ask my friend to drive me around in her BMW, and when I hop off her car, and she drives off, I wave after her smiling happily, feeling contented that she's living so well-off!

If I see my friend getting married off in stlye, romantic, happy, and with tears of joy, I will also weep tears of joy, cause I am happy that my friend is happy.

Even though I might not afford to drive a BMW or I might not have a grand wedding like my friend, but I won't be jealous of my friend and I won't feel 心理不平衡，I'll just feel sincerely happy for my friend that she's living so happily!

Isn't that how a friend should be?

Ok, I just can't stand my friend being upset, or angry, that's why I took the time to blog today, hoping that for those who are still feeling sour as to being an "information feeder", I hope I can bring some sense into them, and make them realise that friends are not supposed to be so calculative.

I made so many plans with a friend of mine to meet up, but always fail to meet up with her, but she never for once get angry with me, because she loves me truly as a friend, that's why she understands me. And she allows me the time I need until I can really find some time to meet her. And even till now I have yet to meet up with her, she is still there, patiently waiting for me. Without any complaints.

It's been so long since I met another friend of mine, but we still keep in close contact, and he always finds the time to call me, even though I'm in Malaysia and he's in S'pore, and telephone bill nowadays are so expensive, he still is willing to spend the money and the time on me, just to listen to my voice, listen to my troubles, listen to my complaints, listen to my ups and downs in life, over the telephone.

Sometimes I grumble over the unhappiness that I have come through, but then I look back and think of all those who love me truly, all my friends who are still there waiting patiently for me, and I know that they have never forgotten me, I know that they are always hoping that I am well deep in their hearts, and I feel really touched and blessed.

Well, for updates on how I'm doing and what I'm doing nowadays, you'll have to come to my blog again.

I'm ending this post abruptly, and hope that the next post will be a happy one.

Take care!

ThAt LaDy @ 9:30 AM